To any problem, any situation, there are always 3 solutions. The White, The Black and The Grey. Your choice paints you or you paint your choice.
A white man that chooses a black or grey option changes himself for the better or worse. He is internalizing from the situation and therefore changing himself.
A grey man will choose either black or white, rarely grey. This is in his nature also, his nature is constant turmoil. There is no peace, nor truth for the grey man. He has internalized a portion of everything, which is the sum of nothing. He is not capable of externalizing himself.
A black man that chooses his natural black way shall change the situation and not himself. He is externalizing what is within. This is being true to one’s self. This is the path.